Home: The Cross Makes All the Difference

Before we lost Mikail, my draw to heaven wasn’t all that great. Yes, I looked forward to eternity in heaven, but it always felt like ‘there’s so much more life on earth to live first’. I think it was because I hadn’t had, what was for me, a significant loss yet. True, I have lost all of my grandparents.  All four lived long, full lives and were ready to meet their Jesus face to face. There were tears and sadness, but not a grief as deep as we are experiencing right now.

When we lost our first baby to heaven, through miscarriage, my heart was broken. I carried a heavy heart for ten months. I wondered what she would be like when we meet one day. I mourned the future we would never have together, this side of heaven. That loss, was very different, and much healing took place when we found out we were expecting Mikail, and he was born a year and a half after our first loss.

When Mikail passed away, this desperate longing for heaven was born deep within my soul. In 2 Corinthians 5:8 Paul says that he ‘would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord’. He understood this longing.  He wasn’t suicidal, he just had this deep longing for heaven and eternal life with God–away from sin and a broken world.  Yet, he knew, as I do, that God has a calling for us here on earth.

For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. 
If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labor for me.
 Yet what shall I choose? I do not know!  
I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far;  
but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body.
Philippians 1:21-24 
 Paul’s love for Christ was so deep, he had a homesickness so strong within because he knew that nothing on earth could compare to what was waiting for him in heaven.
The death of Mikail, made so very real to me, the broken-ness of the world we live in.  It’s put a deep desire in me to get to know Jesus better and share His love for us.  He has a plan for each of us while we are here and He decides when it is time for us to go home again.  The loss of Mikail made me truly realize that the cross makes all the difference. The longing for heaven is deeper than any longing I have ever had, yet as we wait for ‘home’, there is much to be done right here, right where we are at in this very moment. 

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4 thoughts on “Home: The Cross Makes All the Difference

  1. talenawinters

    I totally \”get\” this, as I feel the same. Levi's death has sent me into a bit of a \”study\” about heaven and the afterlife, as I finally care (for the first time) the specifics of how heaven works. It just feels like it will be such a long time until we get to go, doesn't it? Hugs!


  2. Iris

    Yes…it feels like such a long time until we get to go. Last week Olivia missed Mikail so much that in her three year old way, she kept climbing on furniture and jumping up, reaching for heaven, sobbing: \”I need you Mikail\”. How I wished that worked. I'd be jumping up reaching for heaven too.


  3. Rhonda

    Hugs to you, Iris! And Olivia and Jason:) God is using you here on earth in so many ways, thank you for lingering here and sharing with us even though we know your heart is up in heaven with Mikail.



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